Rather than asking him or her such questions directly, lay low and gather your information over time.
If you answer these questions honestly, you’ll have gobs of good information as you try to determine whether a long-term relationship with the older individual could work well.
But I have to ask someone who won't freak out when I tell them I am seriously interested in a man who is 44. Today we are all healthier, care about our appearances etc, take a look at my picture, that is genuinely me as I am right now at the grand old age of 60. OK I am an older myself, but that gives we oldies life's experiences plus we've seen more, true it makes us no experts, but we view and see things though all aspects, and therefore can give a more realistic answer. But kind :) If you were just 18 or so, then maybe yes, but there are plenty of couples with one much older than the other person, and at 25, plus a mature 25 I would say that is certainly is not weird at all.When my marriage collapsed in a cascade of discoveries about my husband, I did what many women before me have done: I fled to a place where I thought I would be able to heal and find clarity.But my elected haven wasn't a mecca for eating or praying.